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What to Buy and Learn Before Baby Arrives

Two parts: the minimum shopping that really covers the first 3 months, and the skills to practise before baby arrives. The biggest fear is forgetting something; the biggest regret is buying things you never use.

What to Buy and Learn Before Baby Arrives

Quick summary

  • Buy for 3 months, not a year — babies grow fast
  • Car seat is non-negotiable: you need it to leave the hospital
  • Both parents learn infant first aid and safe sleep
For links to the products we used, see our Baby Shopping List →

Shopping list — first 3 months

Sleep

0 / 2 packed

Clothes (newborn + 0–3 months; babies grow fast)

0 / 3 packed

Feeding

0 / 5 packed

Care & bath

0 / 4 packed

On the move

0 / 4 packed

Not needed in the first months

  • High chair
  • Baby walker
  • Baby shoes
  • Lots of newborn-size clothes
  • Cot bumpers (babies only start rolling and moving a few months in)

Learning list — before baby arrives

0 / 8 packed

Admin & practical jobs

0 / 5 packed

5 things a partner can do

  • Take over the night nappy changes
  • Manage the visitors
  • Keep an eye on mum's water and food
  • Take on the housework
  • Look out for mum's mood

Frequently asked questions

How many clothes does a newborn need?

7–8 bodysuits and 6–7 sleepsuits are enough for the first 3 months.

Should I buy a breast pump before the birth?

Not necessarily — you can buy one after the birth if you need it.

Do I need bottles if I'm breastfeeding?

Having 2–3 on standby makes life much easier.

What shouldn't I spend money on?

A high chair, walker, baby shoes and lots of newborn-size clothes aren't needed in the first months.

This guide is based on our own experience and trusted sources; always check medical decisions with your doctor.

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